This year, I’m devoting time and energy to fine-tuning my business. At the moment, I’m in the process of defining what exactly I DO for people. I’m an expert in something. But what?
Often, people come to me because they have a problem they want to be free of whose solution eludes them. Underneath, their unasked question is, “Do I have the power within me to free myself of this?” Always, inevitably, the answer is, “Yes.”
Helping people unleash their untapped power is what I’ve done as a Life Coach for the past 10 years. In recent years though, what I notice is that as my own understanding of how we create reality around us has grown, the speed and accuracy with which I personally am able to change reality – and I mean change PHYSICAL reality – has skyrocketed.
Sometimes the speed with which it happens catches me off guard. And so far, I can’t always reproduce it every time. Generally, I haven’t widely talked about it because most people aren’t open to the idea. But the truth is, on many occasions, I’ve knowingly warped physical reality.
According to Wikipedia, Reality Warping is “the ability to reshape matter and energy, create or alter life and matter, turn a person’s thoughts or desires into reality, simulate any and all other powers and abilities, bend time and space, and possibly even rewrite the laws of physics.”
Yessirree, Bob.
Been there. Done that. Got the T-shirt.
2 years ago, for example, the crack in my Volvo’s air conditioner disappeared immediately after I did some deep inner work and found the part of me that was ‘showing up’ as that crack. (True story: the mechanics literally couldn’t find the crack they’d previously diagnosed when they went in to repair it.)
Last year, some floor-to-ceiling cupboards were being installed in our laundry room that turned out to be too tall for the room. While the carpenters scratched their heads, I joked that I’d help out by lifting the ceiling for a moment so they could slide the cupboards into place. One joked back, “I don’t know what reality you live in, but we all live in this one where these cupboards just don’t fit.”
As they lifted the cupboards, I did my thing and felt the ceiling lift. Three people’s mouths dropped in unison as the cupboards slid neatly into place. One mouthed the words, “I felt you do that!”
I chuckled and said, “You’re welcome”. I wasn’t the least bit surprised.
I have a zillion stories like this by now. Most untold. But I’ve decided its time to come out of the closet. Because the truth is, physical reality doesn’t exist as matter. Its only potential collapsed into temporary form by our focus upon it. Shift your focus, shift the form you see.
The missing crack in my car’s air conditioner saved us a $2500 repair bill. Do you see the potential benefits of what I’m talking about?
So as I come clean, today I’m toying with the notion of describing myself as a Reality Warping Expert. Its true, but is that the best way to describe myself?
Love to hear your thoughts if you care to share!
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I’m glad it inspired you Diana!
Hi Wendy,
I learned this in Matrix Energetics, other modalities practice this as well but for some reason I forgot to use this. My energy was being drained by the ecomomy etc. I am so happy you wrote about this because I am going to focus on doing this again. I like the scale you did it on.
Thanks you made my day,
Diana
Hi Wendy,
Love this article! You know I LOVE warping the reality of my (and others’!) bank accounts!
I think when we talk about what we DO, we need to bring up not the process or the doing (i.e. warping reality, which we really do all the time, anyway, because there IS no “reality,” right?) but the intentional, tangible RESULTS which we create in doing so.
So I call myself a “money manifesting expert” because money is the results I’m consistently great at and know how to help others with.
You seem to excel at shifting physical matter … not quite sure how you would lump what you describe above into a “result.”
I sure know I don’t know how to manifest a car repair (although I can manifest the money to pay for one, ha ha!). That’s really, really nifty!
Blessings,
Andrea
Fascinating!!! Time has come to openly name ourselves. My suggestion is: why not be bold and replace Expert by Master?
haha NO more being a closet-warper! These are exactly the kind of stories that NEED to be told. It helps move us from theory to actuality! From knowing that reality is really malleable to LIVING that it is – and everything physical thing we think is physical is!!!! I can’t wait to read more!!! I don’t know how many more exclamations I can use to show my excitement but I for one am SO ready for these conversations!
blessings,
K.
How fabulous, Karen – we peers and kindred spirits are definitely out here! And as we each become more and more willing to be seen, the easier it is to find each other.
Wendy
Wendy,
I was sent a link to your blog post today. I am in the creation stages of launching a 3 month program called The Grand Illusionist…Is that ME?
As I read the post I received affirmation that I am not alone in playing with reality. I have dabbled for a long time and eluded to it in my work. That phase is over. Thank you for sharing and lighting sparks all over the universe.
Thanks, Elke, Marnyka and Grace,
Its great to have company on this wild and wonderful ride.
Wendy
open your head, the title will drop in and then just tell us.
x0
Yes Wendy,
I hear you loud and clear. WE know what we do but not everyone is ready to hear those exact words (personal experience). I gave someone a Divine Opening the other day and they thought all I did was relax them without a massage. Doesn’t really matter if their life changes for the better. I have the title of Quantum Change Facilitator on one of my cards. I really like that title.
We’ll get to the point when someone asks us what we do, we’ll just look into their eyes and say nothing and they’ll know exactly. That gave me some chills.
wew, I am so glad, you are bringing this up! I’ve been wondering about it myself. Just today I wondered, what to call myself on a new website and thought, hm, Wendy calls herself Coach, Consciousness, Pioneer and somehow you are so much more. Beyond words, illusion twister, master angel, master knower, new kinda teacher, core shifter, field wobbler, living knower, or just : IT! Really, much more, all and nothing, beyond words….