http://www.wendydown.com/the-subconscious-pleasure-we-get-from-problems Just another WordPress weblog Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:07:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 http://www.wendydown.com/the-subconscious-pleasure-we-get-from-problems/comment-page-1#comment-9369 Linda Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:07:50 +0000 http://www.wendydown.com/?p=487#comment-9369 This was spot-on for me, to understand why I kept creating an unwanted situation over and over - the pay offs were: I got to be right, I got to share/commiserate with others and elicit sympathy, and gain support, (forms of attention) as well. But as Dr. Dyer says, "I would rather be happy, than be right." This is the perfect assist to shift away from problem patterns! Thanks, Wendy! This was spot-on for me, to understand why I kept creating an unwanted situation over and over – the pay offs were: I got to be right, I got to share/commiserate with others and elicit sympathy, and gain support, (forms of attention) as well. But as Dr. Dyer says, “I would rather be happy, than be right.” This is the perfect assist to shift away from problem patterns! Thanks, Wendy!

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